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How to Play With a Woman Presentation Outline The presentation is divided into two parts; a discussion of the main elements of BDSM and then a hands-on demo of ways of playing with your submissive. The opening session will discuss words and concepts: Top/bottom; Dom/sub; Master/slave. It will discuss the concept of SSC (safe, sane and consensual) as opposed to abuse. I'll go over some of the differences between Leather and non-Leather activities and concepts and review typical Leather and non-leather relationships including pets (puppy play), boys/bois, pony play, poly relations in kink, and Families. I'll provide a handout with a checklist that is typically used in pre-play negotiations, then hold for questions. When we move into the sensation play portion, I'll do a "toybag review" that covers some common implements/methods used for: * pleasure play (feathers, bunny fur, blowing on the person, massage oils, vibrators) * abrasion play (sand paper, brillo pads) * impact play (hands, paddles, genital whips) * psychological play (knife play, fake blood) * endorphin play (clips and clamps) * electrostim play (violet wand) If there is enough time, I wrap the submissive in Saran Wrap for part of this demo, because sensations are much more concentrated when you are only working on one small portion of the submissive's skin. |
