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J. Rubel, PhD
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It takes more to being a Master than wishing it to be so. This presentation explores who you are as a Master; what you bring to the table to offer a slave, and what you may want the slave to bring to you. This book also explores the roles each of you envision in your relationship. We go on to explore ways to nurture the relationship, and how you can bring some business-world skills and techniques to bear on your personal M/s relationship.
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(Book:
Protocol Handbook for the Female Slave
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Protocols reinforce the Master’s personal values, give structure to the family, and provide the Master and slave the opportunity to celebrate their unity through service. A common base of understanding about Master/slave Leather protocols is introduced and terms are explained. Rubel demonstrates some of the rituals and routines, including formal dining, that are used daily with his slave whose role is described as Personal Assistant. Time permitting, the audience is encouraged to share their personal protocols and why they have chosen them. Click HERE for descriptions of related presentations
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Care and Nurturing of the M/s Relationship
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A structured relationship takes lots of hard work –– both on the part of the Master and the slave. This workshop grew out of my own exploration into ways to bridge the gaps in our backgrounds, language levels, and skill levels. Among others, we will explore areas of invisibility, assumptions, and agreements. We will also touch on communication theory and practice, sorting modalities, and transactional analysis. Finally, we’ll touch on some ideas for turning a negative relationship towards the positive through word choice. Group participation is welcomed (and expected). We’re all in this together. |
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The Great Sex Workshop ![]() (Book:
Squirms, Screams and Squirts:
A Guide to Extrodinary Sex
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For many men, sex is about personal gratification. This presentation is about a wide range of techniques to please the Lady. We'll discuss/demonstrate detailed techniques for fingering, G-spot and cervix play, massage, and vibrators. We'll include discussions both about kinky and vanilla techniques. We'll begin with a discussion of how to set up the psychological conditions so that a woman will even be responsive to receive an extraordinary sexual evening. This includes suggestions about how to listen, talk, and respond. The workshop/demo starts with a detailed review of female anatomy, then progresses to use of a live model, to demonstrate many specific techniques. Other aspects of this presentation discuss lubricant selection, how to choose various kinds of vibrators (both internal and external) and (should you wish it) fisting. |
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Erotic Fire Play for Fun and Effect
(Book: Flames
of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play) |
Fire play is a high-drama scene in the BDSM world. It is considered to be edge play and requires an individual mentor for successful mastery. Through live demonstration, Rubel explains the physical phenomena of endorphin and adrenaline rushes as well as some psychological "mind-fuck" techniques. In this presentation, he demonstrates the use of flash cotton; devil's fire (hot needles touched to the skin's surface to produce endorphin release); alcohol wanding and fire glove, cupping and BDSM wax play with close attention to safety procedures.
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How
to Play with a Woman |
Sensation, impact and vibrator play are introduced in this non-kink demo. Techniques using sensation play include: abrasion toys, prickly toys, pinchy toys and basic electro-stim consisting of the violet wand and TENS. The various paths of pleasure are explored emphasizing how different people respond to different stimuli, and the fun of finding out what the woman likes. impact play includes the safe use of floggers, canes, and hands. Time permitting, the versatility of external and internal vibrator play is demonstrated. |
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Plastic Wrap Mummification and Sensation Play |
In this demonstration, participants learn how to wrap their partner for sensation play. The program opens with a safety review and with a brief show-and-tell of alternate wrapping materials including duct tape and latex bands. The importance both of using food-safe plastic wrap on a body and of preventing skin from touching skin during the wrapping process are stressed. Once the bottom is safely mummified, the audience learns how to tease and stimulate her/him with toys that pinch, poke and abrade. |
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